Saturday, September 17, 2005 Blogging about my blog What is happening? :( Look, why do you have a blog anyway? To post your thoughts, vent out your frustrations and of course, to get other people's opinion about it right? That doesn't mean that it always has to be positive. - I know. Didn't I mention that the last time? :( I was just trying to correct whatever... emphasize my point. I just want to Let that person understand what I really think and FEEL. Different people have different views. - Correct! I don't know. It's a bit confusing now. So, does it mean that if someone posted a comment on your blog that doesn't contain all praises you'll be ranting all over. - Hell no. I'm not anticipating for praises. I don't need those. But Id appreciate if people will comment on my blog in a "not so offending" manner. oh... whatever. I'm a bit disappointed. - Same here. I used to think that you're one hell of a smart, open-minded person. Now, it seems that you cannot handle criticism. - I can handle criticisms. Yes I take them seriously... it's really helpful especially whenever I reflect on aspects that I need to improve on. You should meet some people I know so you'll understand. LOL :) I guess it's the manner of criticizing that really ticks me off. (mmm... I suddenly remembered my fave guy cousin's mom who shouted at me because I can't find the syrup at McDO! LOL. :D parang walang connectioN! :D The connection? Well, she used to give hurtful remarks... especially when it comes to my parents... (particularly to my dad... which is her bro) ...and to my school... and to my sister... and to me... ...Proud to say that I handled all the criticisms that they spit on us. I've forgiven her...:) BUT I'LL NEVER FORGET ALL THE STUFF THAT SHE SAID (or they said)... I have her words in me... and I used those criticisms to improve myself and show her that me and my family deserve some RESPECT. I can be all that (gosh.. I'm so motivated to study... sha lang pala dapat kong isipiN! hahahaha!) (ano ba to... an layo na! hahahah! grabe, naalala ko lang!). mm.. same here sa blog na to... all comments.. praises or criticims... hay.. they're nothing. I just had the urge to correct what Anonymous said. Sort of emphasizing and clearing my point. For me, sometimes we all need some diversity. Usually the type of person that can tell you her thoughts straight out without any sugar coating (no matter how harsh it may be) will be the one to make you realize the things that have been blinding you all along. - so true! Appreciate every person around you. and when you want some feedback, don't expect everyone to be showering you with praises. You're not the center of the universe. - I don't expect anyone to shower me with praises... PRAISES ARE JUST WORDS THAT WILL PLAINLY FLATTER YOU... WORDS THAT'LL BOOST YOUR SELF - ESTEEM. I DON'T NEED A DOSE OF THAT. I'm more particular with people who has an OPEN MIND... WHO KNOWS HOW TO LISTEN (err.. read)... UNDERSTAND... WHO DOES NOT ONLY OPEN HIS MOUTH BUT ALSO HIS SENSES. ...WHO DOES NOT THROW CRITICISMS BECAUSE HE FEELS THAT WHAT I'VE WRITTEN IS DIFFERENT FROM HIS PERSPECTIVES... BUT INSTEAD SOMEONE WHO'LL CRITICIZE ME BECAUSE HE KNOWS THAT HE CAN MAKE ME A BETTER PERSON. Anlabo ba? It shows kse in the manner that person constructs his sentences. I wish I can explain it better. tsk. I feel so bad about all these. ano baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa kuya... :(
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